Lube makes sex better, there's no argument there. However, with a myriad of options on the market, how to we choose the right one? Never fear! Bawdee is here to help. Join us as we unpack what to look for in a lube and what you really don't want, to help you discover which lube is best for you.
What to consider
Let us preface this by saying there are some things you should consider when choosing the perfect lube. Consider any allergies or sensitivities you may have when finding a lubricant. Also, take a little extra care if you’re vegan as some brands use animal derivatives in the form of beeswax, collagen or enzymes, whilst others may test on animals. We don't, by the way. At Bawdee, we believe animals are ours to care for not to test on, therefore we choose to test all of our products on our founder Emily, a real consenting human being, plus a handful of her girlfriends.
Secondly, just like consent, always check in with your sexual partner(s), to see if they are ok with you applying products, just in case they may have any allergies or preferences when it comes to particular ingredients. Open communication is so so important when it comes to sex! If in doubt, just ask.
Understanding Your Options
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Water-Based Lubricants: Versatile and widely accessible, water-based lubricants are a popular choice for many. They're compatible with condoms and sex toys, making them ideal for various sexual activities. Their water-soluble nature also ensures easy cleanup. However, they may require reapplication as they tend to dry out more quickly than other types. Bawdee's GLIDE Aloe lube's gentle plant-based formula won't let you down. With hyaluronic acid, aloe vera, hemp and linseed extract to fortify and nourish the vagina's delicate tissues, GLIDE leaves nothing behind but the hydration you asked for.
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Oil-Based Lubricants: If you're seeking longevity and indulgence, oil-based lubricants might be your best bet. Perfect for sensual massages and self-pleasuring, these lubes provide a luxurious glide and last longer than their water-based counterparts. However, it's essential to note that oil-based lubricants are not compatible with condoms as they can degrade latex, increasing the risk of breakage. Bawdee's YUM Coco Lube is up there with the best. An edible coconut-oil based lubricant blended with creamy cacao butter, stevia, and natural vanilla flavour. It's an absolute game-changer for oral. Read the reviews, try it and thank us later.
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Silicone-Based Lubricants: When it comes to endurance, silicone-based lubricants reign supreme. Offering long-lasting lubrication, they're particularly well-suited for activities like anal sex where prolonged slipperiness is desired. Additionally, silicone-based lubes are hypoallergenic and typically safe for use with latex condoms. However, they are not compatible with silicone sex toys, as they can degrade the material over time.
What to Look for in a Lubricant
When choosing a lubricant, it's essential to consider more than how it rates on slip and slide scale. Here are some key factors to keep in mind:
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Is it pH balanced? Opt for a lubricant that closely matches the pH of the vagina to maintain vaginal health and balance.
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Is it's formula non-irritating? Look for lubes that are free from harsh preservatives and synthetic ingredients to minimise the risk of irritation to the delicate vulval and vaginal skin and mucous membranes.
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Is it made from natural Ingredients? Choose lubricants that are free from harmful additives such as parabens, glycerin, and synthetic fragrances. Instead, opt for products with natural and organic ingredients that are gentle, vulva safe and protects the vagina's delicate mucous membranes.
Ingredients to Avoid
Steering clear of certain ingredients can help ensure a safer and more enjoyable lubricant experience. Here are some common culprits to watch out for:
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Parabens: These synthetic preservatives have been linked to hormone disruption and other health concerns.
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Glycerin: a sugar derivative found in many water-based lubricants, can feed candida and contribute to yeast infections, BV and UTI's.
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Synthetic Fragrances: Artificial fragrances can irritate sensitive skin and may contain undisclosed chemicals.
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Benzocaine: Benzocaine is a numbing agent found in lubricants, which ultimately limits your body’s perception of pain. This is problematic because pain during sex signals that something is wrong, whether it be inadequate arousal, pelvic floor tension, internal friction and more. If you are experiencing pain during penetration - don't ignore it or push through it. Listen to your body and seek medical/professional advice.
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Petroleum jelly: Petroleum jelly can outstay its welcome in the vagina, mess with the pH levels and contribute to vaginal infections.
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Nonoxynol-9: Nonoxynol-9 is a spermicide that can kill the good bacteria in the vagina, resulting in infection, irritation and discomfort.
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Propylene glycol: helps prevent water-based lube from drying out and can be irritating to the skin for some people.
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Chlorhexidine gluconate: an antimicrobial capable of killing healthy vaginal bacteria, increasing the susceptibility of developing vaginal infections.
- Phenoxyethanol: a tissue irritant for some people.
The bottom line
Personal lubricants are a super fun, totally handy and sometimes completely necessary product to have when getting down with a lover. Choosing the right lubricant can be an empowering experience. With the right lubricant in your sexy toolkit, you can take your pleasure and overall sexual satisfaction to infinite heights.
